We all make choices every day. Should we eat the extra large French fries or go the gym? Should we watch the TVs show or study? Should we take a lesson or a vacation?
Each one seems trivial. But the accumulative became our fate, our life and who we are.
Are our parents there to guide us, support us, punish us at each of the teachable moments? The lucky ones have. The unlucky ones either don't have parents around or their parents make the decision not to guide, support or punish.
The luckiest ones do all these for themselves. Bit it is rare. Am I the lucky one? Am I making the right choice for my self? For the kids? These questions bother me often.